Monday, February 22, 2021

Buber and a Modern Inability

 

Buber, Berlin, 1902

Once in about 1910 Martin Buber gave a lecture on Judaism in Czernowitz [in present-day Ukraine]; afterward, as he was continuing the discussion over a meal in a restaurant with a few members of his audience, a middle-aged Jew came and joined in. He introduced himself, and then sat down and followed the abstract discussion, which must have been unusual to his ears, with great interest. He declined every invitation to advance a comment, but at the close of the discussion he addressed Buber and said, "I want to ask you something. I have a daughter and she knows a young man who has been studying law. He passed all his examinations with honors. What I would like to know is this: would he be a reliable man?"

Buber was taken by surprise by this question, and answered, "I assume from your words that he is industrious and able."

Apparently this was not what the man really meant to ask, for he proceeded, "But could you tell me? I would like to know this particularly--would he be clever?"

"That is rather more difficult to answer," Buber said, "but I presume that merely with diligence he could not have achieved what he did."

The man was still not satisfied, and finally the question he really meant to ask came out. "Herr Doctor, should he become a judge or should he become a lawyer?"

"That I cannot tell you," answered Buber, "for I do not know your future son-in-law, and even if I did know him, I would not be able to give you advice in this matter." The other man thanked him and left, obviously disappointed.

In this conversation an ancient certainty—the certainty that wise men are men who know—was shattered by a modem inability. Buber ought to have said, "He should become a solicitor," or, "He should become a barrister," "How could he know?" cries out Buber as a modern contemporary, as if action were founded on knowledge. Of course Buber could not know. But nobody asked him to know. What he had been asked for was advice—judgment, not knowledge. Advice and judgment, of course, fitting the occasion, and applicable to this man: someone who entered in this particular way, who asked his question in this particular manner, and who looked like him; a man who presumably had such-and-such kind of a daughter; advice which fit this vague, very vague, totality, but primarily advice, a certainty, a wise word, a word that would have brought structure to this vague totality; an answer which would have erected a beacon, so that the sailing would no longer be dangerous.

"He should become a barrister." These words, if spoken by Buber, by a sage, by a man who looked and spoke like one, a man who apparently knew, these words would have been the strongest foundation for the future son-in-law's choice of profession. How could he have gone wrong if his career had been initiated by such advice? The answer would have created its own rightness; it would have created truth. Is not truth, truth in the relation between man and man, basically the effect of a fearlessness toward the other person? Is not truth, above all, a result, a made up thing, a creation of the sage? The person who knows creates the future by speaking.

But Buber is a modern man. To the sudden question--a question which, as he himself confessed later on, could have opened his eyes because of its suddenness—to the sudden question, "Is my daughter's friend a reliable man?" he replies (as if he had studied psychology), "According to your own words he must be industrious and able." He could have added, "Don't you think so yourself?" Imagine, however, the consternation that would have been caused by this answer. It would have seemed inconceivable that Buber would throw back the question—the sage must be joking. Another attempt is made: "Is he clever?" which is met by the inevitable, though not less shocking, answer: "Merely with diligence—the diligence, dear questioner, which you yourself mentioned in your description of your future son-in-law and to which I can refer—merely with diligence he could not have achieved what you, yourself, dear questioner, indicated when you said that he had passed all his examinations with honors—merely with diligence he could not have achieved all that, don't you think so yourself?"

"Leave me alone," says Buber, "don't tempt me. For—being a modem man—I don't know; or rather I firmly believe that all inter-human actions should be based on knowledge, and as I don't possess this particular knowledge, I am not permitted to make a guess." And so his final answer is quite understandable: "I don't know," he says, "I don't know him. But even if I knew him, I still would not know."

                —  J. H. Van Den Berg, The Changing Nature of Man, after Buber, “My Way to Hasidism,” 63-66. 


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